We DO coexist peacefully...except for the little guy that came and went, lol. And even he didn't really do anything...just his image kinda scared me. As for the other entities here, we have made it quite clear that they are welcome to stay if they like as long as they don't try to hurt or
scare anyone. Every once in awhile activity will increase significantly, and we just calmly let them know we know they're there...and it usually dies down.
In the 15 years we've dealt with this, we've never had a problem with any
malicious type of activity unless it was a person brought into the home that they didn't like, ie my sister's and my boyfriends, lol. They are extremely protective and are part of the family...even the ones that seem to stay for only a short period of time.
As I've stated above, evp sessions are not really feasible, but they have been conducted in the past...with not much luck. And I have been keeping a journal for the past ten years or so. Lately I only record really strange things, as when you've got little stuff happening everyday,
recording is tedious, lol. As for patterns, none really
exist that are too concrete. If a strange man is brought into the house, they'll act up. They're more active during the late winter months into early spring. Activity is at its
peak between 7am and 11am and again between 2am and 4am. They like my black dogs and cat but hate my yellow lab and iguana.
I've been investigating and researching seriously for the past seven years almost, so going through this has definitely helped me deal with my clients much more effectively. I can empathize, and I too always recommend they keep a journal and just talk to their entities to try to resolve any problems. EVP sessions include, among other things, any questions or concerns the client has pertaining to the entity and haunting. But...most importantly, I know how to spot false positives, lol. I know just how much pressure from another part of the house it takes to jiggle open the
latch of a door. I know how to check a phantom flushing toilet for leaks. I know what a pregnant racoon sounds like in the attic...all stuff that I've learned from trying to debunk my own experiences, lol.